Painful

(From Grey's Anatomy S2E05)


Bailey:You haven't signed those divorce papers yet, have you?

Derek:Bailey, tell me what to do.
God, why does these have to be so hard?

Bailey:It's not hard. It's painful but it's not hard.
Come on, you know what to do already.
If you didn't, you wouldn't be so much pain.

這真是一語驚醒夢中人！
我們是不是也常常在做決定的過程中，感到痛苦萬分？
其實，在那個時候，我們的心中幾乎都有一個答案了。
只是不願意讓自己面對做完決定的痛苦！
(遠目~想著五個月前!!!!!!!!)


Pain.You just have to ride it out.
Hope it goes away on its own.
Hope the wound that caused it heals.
There are no solutions.
No easy answers.
You just breathe deep and wait for it to subside.
Most of the time, pain may be managed.
But sometimes, the pain gets you when you least expect it.
Hits way below the belt and doesn't let up.
Pain.You just have to fight through.
Because the truth is you can't outrun it.
And life always makes more.

痛苦，必須挺過去
期待它自己消失
期待造成痛苦的傷口癒合
根本沒有解決的方法
沒有簡單的回答
你只能深呼吸等待痛苦慢慢消退
大部分的時候痛苦是可以控制的
但有時候，痛苦在你想不到的時候出現
痛苦來的不擇手段且無法停止
痛苦...你只好奮力抵抗
因為事實是你無法逃避
而且人生總是有更多痛苦